Oooh the Pleasures of Male Masturbation

Young boys find out about masturbation really early in life, they grow up more aware of their penises than young girls do of there sexual organs and they quickly find out what gives them erections. They handle and touch themselves every time they go to the bathroom or shower and learn quickly about sexual pleasure, at a much earlier age than women. By 18, 90% of boys have started masturbating.

Men learn very early that touching and rubbing their penis against things like pillows and sheets is very pleasurable. When masturbating some men prefer to use their dry hand while some prefer lubrication and no one can do a hand job on a man better then himself. This seems to be true of most men, so if you want to give your man a good hand job, watch what he does to himself. Every guy is different, as hand position varies as does speed, grip and motion.

Some men prefer to masturbate standing up, some prefer sitting and others would rather recline. However many men change their positions depending on the circumstances.

Men have been much more socialized towards their penises than women have been towards their vulva (external genital organs) for many years. Because men learn to handle their penises to urinate and the penis is a sign of virility, male masturbation has been more reinforced in our culture than female masturbation. Giving them tons of time to develop hundreds of ways to masturbate.

Male Masturbation - Getting prepared

Treat yourself to more than a quickie

Most young boys learn to masturbate secretly and quickly and then try to figure out what to do with the evidence. This can create a pattern of quick masturbating, missing out on all the pleasures that masturbating gives. If this is you, try something different, take your time and really explore yourself sexually. Be sure you have plenty of time and privacy for yourself so you don't have to rush and finish quickly for fear of being interrupted or 'caught'.

Try it without porn, and listen to your body

Although lots of men like porn, which can be great to get you excited, some men don't. There's nothing wrong with either way, but this time try it without the porn, don't toss it, just try it without it. This way you'll concentrate on your body and not the porn.

As you masturbate pay attention to the change in your breathing, and the change in your body. How does it feel just before you orgasm? How does it feel as you orgasm? How does if feel after? Pay attention to the pleasure your body is giving.

Try it with porn

Many people enjoy watching or looking at something sexual as they masturbate. The site and sounds of others having sex, making love, sucking on each other or, kissing or caressing turns many people on. Grab a sex magazine or surf the net and search some 'live webcam chat' sites. Checkout online Video on Demand Theater for some hot sexy movies and you don't have to join this site if you don't want to.

Try something different

Lots of men masturbate the same way all the time, there are many different ways of pleasuring oneself and by trying something different every once in a while, you're sure to find some new pleasurable ways to stimulate yourself.

• switch it up: if you always use the same hand to masturbate like most guys do, try using the other hand. It'll feel really weird at first, the grip and rhythm won't feel the same at all. It'll be like having sex with someone new, give it a try.
• lube it up: put on some lubrication and use both hands at once in a pumping motion along your shaft.
• use your fingers: make a circle with your thumb and forefinger around your penis and stroke up and down your shaft. When you reach the top of your penis close the ring and force your penis through and slide back down to the bottom of your shaft.
• change it up: if you always masturbate lying down or sitting, try a new position. Try standing if you normally sit or sitting if you normally stand or try kneeling.
• take it to the water: masturbate in the shower if you never have - makes for very easy clean up.
• double whammy: stroke your penis from top to bottom with both hands one at a time, releasing them when you reach the bass. Develop a rhythm, as you alternate hands, stroking down over and over again.
• move your hips: many men don't move their hips at all when they masturbate. Try moving you hips with you hand movements, simulating the thrusting of intercourse. Be aware of how moving your hips in different ways can bring you closer to and take you away from orgasm.
• try different hand strokes: most men get accustomed very early in life with the stroking up and down method. There are tons of other strokes that can result in different erotic sensations and different orgasmic feeling.
• penis roll: place both hands on the sides of your penis and roll your penis between them, moving you hands up and down as if you were starting a fire. Be gentle, you don't really want to start a fire, and you may want to use a lubrication for this one.
• fist fucking: penetrate your closed fist by forcing your penis into it and stroking down to the base, repeating the motion with your other hand, interchange hands at the end of each stroke.
• palm licking: with your open palm swirl around the head of you penis, just as a tongue would do to top of an ice cream cone. Try this one with or without lubrication.
• twist it up: use long twisting strokes instead of just up and down, experimenting with different pressure, and speed.
• twisting the head: gently twist the head of your penis back and forth as if you were removing a soda cap or turning a door knob. Turn one way then the other.
• ignore your head: stroke only your shaft, ignoring the head of your penis and watch it swell and turn red or purple. When it's bright in color and rock hard, gently stimulate it with either the palm of your hand or your fingers.
• try a little pinch: very slowly and with a light touch run the tips of one or two fingers up the under side of your penis and gently pinch the very sensitive vein underneath.
• try this: here's a complicated move from The Society for Human Sexuality: Take the penis in both hands, fingers lightly touching the sides of the shaft. Think of holding a clarinet. Now flick the penis back and forth between the finger tips of your two hands by holding on to the loose skin of the shaft. Going back and forth in this manner may not seem incredibly thrilling at first, but pretty soon, as it builds up momentum, it will drive you out of your mind. Orgasms encountered via this method are sometimes messy, but always memorable.
• explore your shaft: although most of the nerve endings are in the head of the penis - especially the frenulum, there are many men that have very sensitive spots on their shaft. See if you have any and how many you can find and where they're located. Press the bass of your penis toward your body with one hand as you experiment with different hand strokes along your shaft - exploring it for sensitive areas.
• tease your balls: the balls or testicles are a very sensitive area in most men and welcome stimulation through touch, pressure, stroke, rub, scratch or tickle.
• restriction: make a circle with your thumb and forefinger at the top of your scrotum and gently tug downward as you masturbate. This will prevent you from ejaculating and it will extend sexual feeling in your body.
• get to know more then just your penis: explore the perineum, the area between the scrotum and the anus, which is very sensitive to pressure and massage and rubbing it provides external stimulation to the P-spot, or the prostate gland.
• go south: don't be afraid to explore your anus, which is filled with erogenous zones - both externally and by inserting a finger.

As with anything new, it may feel ridiculous or odd at first, and you’ll probably go back to doing it the way you have been. However you just may find a more enjoyable way to add to your male masturbating technique. You may discover some very different sensations and many different pleasures.

Try adding Male Masturbation Toys and Lubes

Although your hand may get the job done, if you'd like to kick up your masturbation experience, try adding other male masturbation sex toys. These hand-held male sex toys fit tightly around your shaft and masturbators with ribbed interiors makes stroking extremely stimulating and very pleasurable. The more realistic feel of the masturbator leads to a much stronger and more enjoyable orgasm. It might be a large realistic vagina or the Double D Rack Attack Masturbator

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