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Frolicking for the G-SpotFinding the G-Spot: you should be able to find yours with your finger. That is if you have one, some women say they just can't find it. Try locating yours with your finger about 1 to 2 inches inside the vagina facing toward your belly button, on the front wall. If you're not sexually aroused it may be no bigger than a pea; if you are aroused it could be the size of a walnut. It is best to be aroused when stimulating your g-spot, other wise touching it can cause discomfort. So it is important to remember that when it comes to the g-spot stimulation, timing is really important. Try stroking it when you're aroused, using a 'come here' motion with your finger, being sure to apply plenty of pressure. This erogenous zone requires nice firm pressure for stimulation. A perfect time to try stimulation the g-spot is after a clitoral orgasm. This will take you to wonderful new heights of extreme sexual pleasure. After your body has calmed down from the very intense experience of a g-spot vaginal orgasm, you can go back to your clitoris, which should be ready to be pleasured again. These two types of orgasm complement each other, sometimes coming one after another as a multiple orgasm. It is said this can cause a trance-like feeling, very important in tantric sex, which comes close to the state of bliss attained through meditation.
It is said that this erogenous zone will swell and pulse when stimulated and just like breasts and nipples, the size of your g-spot has no bearing on how sensitive it is. When stimulated this area leads to high levels of sexual arousal and extremely powerful g-spot orgasms and some women's orgasms are accompanied by "ejaculate" from the urethra. The G-spot is named after the German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg who first wrote about female ejaculatory fluid in 1950. Dr Grafenberg stated that fluid expelled by women during g-spot orgasm was not urine, as was the common belief, but instead secretions which are similar to a man's ejaculate minus sperm. A man's "G-spot" known to some as the "P-spot" is his prostate. A good way to stimulate your g-spot is to insert the forefinger to about the second knuckle and make a 'come here' motion towards the front vaginal wall. Experiment with pressure and length of stroke to find out what feels good to you. It's a very good idea to be sexually aroused first other wise touching this area may cause discomfort. Please note that many women say sensitivity varies throughout the month. Stimulation during intercourse: you may or may not be able to feel stimulation during intercourse depending on the size and location of your g-spot. Try raising your pelvis with a pillow. Another position is to bend over on all fours - doggie style entering the vagina from behind. The penis is then turned toward the front wall of the vagina and in position to stimulate the g-spot. Here are some sexual positions you can try:
Don't limit yourself to these positions, have some fun and experiment and don't forget to add sex toys to your sexual play. They are specifically made to add tons of pleasure to your many erogenous zones, especially were your g-spot is concerned. You may be sensitive in the g-spot area and you many not be, don't worry about it. Some women don't like the feeling of having their g-spot stimulated, and if you're one of them there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Different people like different things, period. The vagina is so erogenous that you can have a perfectly wonderful and fulfilled sex life without it.
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The area is rough, not smooth like the rest of the vaginal wall. Because the g-spot is located just above the bladder, applying pressure may produce an overwhelming urge to use the bathroom. It is wise to empty your bladder before you go exploring. If you don't have to go to the bathroom it will just fill like it, keep pressing, stroking or rubbing with a good amount of pressure, the sensation should turn into a very intense feeling of pleasure. Not all women like this feeling so play around with it to see if you do.
Spooning: this is a very easy position to get into and it's also very comfortable. The penis is angled towards the front wall of the vagina for perfect g-spot stimulation.
The Candle: the woman lies on her back with her legs up in the air or you can try lying on the edge of the bed. The man kneels between her legs or on the floor next to the bed if you're lying near the edge of the bed. This position will put pressure on a womens G Spot, due to the angle of her hips.
The Clip: sitting astride your partner, lean back and rock your weight on your hands. The angle of your pelvis will increase the pressure of your partners penis on your G Spot