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However many women and men do have the desire to explore anal play, either alone through masturbation or with his or her partner. However many are incapable of broaching such a tabooed subject. The anus and sphincter muscles are surrounded by thousands of extremely rich and very pleasurable nerve endings. Each of which is capable of creating incredibly pleasurable rushes of sensations. It is no wonder why so many people are exploring the extremely erogenous and wonderful pleasures of the anus.
A man's prostate gland is reached through the rectum and is directly stimulated through anal play.
In turn, a women's G-spot is indirectly stimulated through anal play since anal intercourse provides stimulation of the G-spot through the wall that separates the anus and the vagina.
Since the anus does have so many sensitive nerves that are capable of wonderful pleasure, those same nerves can cause a butt load of pain. Literally. Like other parts of our bodies, if handled roughly, the ass will hurt. Use common sense, if it hurts, it's probably not a good thing to be doing. Maybe you need to slow down or use more lubrication. Take your time and listen to your body or your partner. Anal sex has always been perceived as dirty, come on, we all know what comes out of there. However anal sex can be a pleasurable and relatively clean experience by using an enema before and a condom during. A very important thing to remember whether you're by yourself, with your girlfriend and it's her first anal sex experience or you're experiencing gay anal sex. Go slow and listen to your body and or your partner. Relax - a more relaxed body is much more willing to penetration then one that is tense:
Message the anal area - the anus is very sensitive and erogenous and a message can be very pleasurable and extremely relaxing. Try finger manipulation - the finger tips are soft and can provide tons of wonderful stimulation to the anus through bun and sphincter message. They are also small enough to penetrate without much if any pain. Be sure your nails are trimmed low and they are smooth and free of any sharp jagged edges so as not to tear the delicate lining of the anus. Many objects can be used to stimulate the anus besides a finger like the tongue, penis and or anal sex toys. Use only anal sex toys - Be sure to only use anal sex toys in the anus as objects not made for anal play can become logged in the anus. Causing an embarrassing trip to the emergency room. Here are some anal sex toys that are bestsellers at EdenFantasys.com Ring or flared base - Anal toys should have either a ring or some sort of secure retrieval cord on the end or a flared base. Lubrication - is very important. Since the anus does not produce any lubrication, it is very important that plenty of lubrication is used. Lubrication is extremely helpful in making anal penetration more comfortable and much more pleasurable so don't forget to lube. There are hundred of lubrications available but water-based lubricants are generally considered to be the safest lubrication and it's very popular since most users find it to be non-irritating and it does not deteriorate latex. This can happen with some flavored lubes, which are for external-use only and are not to be used inside the vagina or anus. One of the issues with water-based lubricants is that they can dry quicker than other types of lubricant; however, if you just add more of the lubricant, water, or saliva you can reactivate its slippery properties.  Silicone lubrications have become quite popular because they are safe to use with all condoms and any latex products. Silicone-based lubricants also last longer than water-based lubricants.
Using a condom with a water-based lubricant instead of silicone-based lubricant helps protect the toy from damage. You can choose from many different types of condoms at edenfantasys, and Condomania . Years ago most sex lubrications were only available through mail-order or adult novelty stores. Now you can find them at your local drug store or any online adult website such as edenfantasys.com and even our very own Adult-SexToys-Guide Store. As you explore anal sex, experimenting with different types of lubrication can bring different results. Have fun and choose a few different types. Just to be safe, it is a good idea, especially if your skin is sensitive, to test a small amount of the lubricant on your inner arm or thigh before you use it on your very sensitive genitals.
Astroglide, Anal-Eze and K-Y all are great lubrication to use. If there are no lubrications available vegetable oil will work. However it is very messy and probably will stain any fabric it comes in contact with so you should definitely put a towel underneath you. Although many people have used Vaseline as a lubricant for the vagina and the anus, it is not wise to do so. Below please find an article on this very important subject from Dr. Myrtle, an author at A-Womens-Touch.
~ Dear Dr. Myrtle, I use lubricant sometimes: either KY jelly or Vaseline. Is there something wrong with those? ~
The original KY Jelly (the kind that is sold in a tube) is a water-based lubricant that is widely available, and for that reason many people are familiar with it. Unfortunately, it has some major drawbacks as a sexual lubricant. One is that KY Jelly was not developed as a sexual lubricant per se, it was developed as a medical lubricant. Medical lubricants are used when something needs to be introduced into a body, usually once. Sexual intimacy often involves a lot of back-and-forth motion, and under these conditions, medical lubricants dry and become sticky and gloppy. Lubricants which were developed as sexual lubricants will take the friction of sexual activity, be slicker in use, and stay wetter, longer. KY has developed some "personal" lubricants that are a better choice than the thicker jelly. You can consider them along with the other lubricants available that have been designed for sexual use. Use our "how to choose a lubricant" as a guide to decide which lubricant might work best for you. Sexual lubricants are a very sexy sex toy. In our store, people who take sample packets home to try them out, invariably come back raving positive things about them. Sexual lubricants come in many different varieties and properties, and most people can find THE lube for themselves. No taste? Really slick? Doesn't cause yeast infections? Flavored? Just ask--all of these (and more) have been developed for the sole purpose of increasing your sexual pleasure. Dr. Myrtle
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Although it is thought that most men would love to have anal sex with their wives or girlfriends, it is thought that their wives or girlfriends would never participate in such an awfully dirty painful disgusting sexual act.
